Each week when I get my USWeekly I read the 25 Things You Don't Know About Me which spotlights a celebrity. Even if I don't like them or know who they are I love reading random facts about people. When I read it I think what I would put down and so I decided to do it:
1. I have subscribed to US Weekly for over 10 years
2. My favorite foods are salad and pasta
3. If I could do something amazing I would want to be Olympic track athlete and win the gold medal in the 800 meters
4. I am scared to death of snakes
5. I am embarrassed for anyone to listen to my iPod because my song list is SO random
6. Completing a marathon is on my bucket list
7. I recently became a major fan of iced tea w/splenda
8. The celebrities that annoy me are Miley Cyrus and Lindsay Lohan
9. I love to travel but end up missing home by the 5th day
10. I feel very fortunate to finally be a mom after 30 years
11. My favorite country besides the US is Italy
12. I would love to visit orphanages and just hold the babies so they could feel loved
13. My celebrity crush is on JFK Jr. (yes he is dead but hey it ain't going to happen anyways)
14. For the longest time I wanted 3 Italian Catholic boys but now I totally want a girl and I am not Catholic
15. I am a major recycler at my house
16. I am the messiest tooth brusher on the planet and my husband makes so much fun of me
17. I guess you could say I have an addiction to good wine
18. I have a desire to learn more about photography but want someone to just show me how to take better pictures
19. My husband and I are both Capricorns and are very much alike
20. I have to watch Wheel of Fortune every night at 7pm
21. I miss having actual buttons on my cell phone and hate typing on a screen
22. I would have loved to be a teenager in the 70's but had hair like people in the 80's
23. I am the biggest day dreamer and always have been since I was little…it really passes time
24. I can't watch the animal abuse commercials or the images stay with my for days and I get depressed
25. Kids who scream for attention make my skin crawl
Monday, September 13, 2010
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Mommy and Me Class
Every Wednesday Johnny and I go to Overlake to hang out with other moms and babies that are his age. It is so good to talk with other people and what they are going through to know that you and your baby are "normal". I have always loved participating in things like this because I am a talker and have to talk about my feelings and it is always good to be surrounded by other people going through the same things as you. That is why I loved being in a sorority because I was an 18 year old girl trying to figure out life on my own with 40 other crazy 18 year old girls. Sometimes I sit and laugh because someone is talking about their week in class and saying I can't figure out what is wrong with my baby and they say "have you guys figured it out" and it is like no way sister. It seems that when you do finally figure it out they have passed that phase and you are on to another issue that you can't figure out. Ah the joys of first time parenthood. You don't have clue what you are doing most of the time but whatever it is your child is doing just fine.
Maelle punching Johnny
Maelle punching Johnny
Johnny getting her back by trying to suck on her hand
Wheel of babies
Mommies and the babies
Monday, September 6, 2010
Finally getting it
Johnny is 2 months (9 weeks today) and I can finally say that I am getting this motherhood thing. When Johnny is fussy I know what he actually wants at least most of the time. I wonder if it takes other moms this long to figure it out. The fact that I know his tired cry vs. hungry cry and get him what he needs is very rewarding. Brian always wants to feed him when he crys and now I can say oh no he is actually just tired so swaddle him up in his green blanket (which I also figured out he loves) and give him a binkie and he will be fine. I feel kinda bad that I have to tell Brian what he needs to do but I think he is okay with it as long as he stops crying.
In our mommy and baby class we all say that it is hard because we feel bad telling our husbands what they should do but in reality we are with them 24 hours a day and just know more. I love watching Brian parent and he is trying to get it but isn't 100% there yet. He typically is sitting down when holding Johnny and when he is crying he doesn't get up to bounce him or walk around and occasionally will lay him on the pillow to talk to him. I just stand there and hold my peace and then after a minute or so I say hey why don't you try bouncing him since that usually works. He will get up and walk around and sing to him and then I find him in the front room sitting on the couch trying to console him. It must be tiring for him to bounce or something. I chuckle a little bit and think oh he will get it some day but for now I will let him figure it out more on his own unless of course the baby is screaming his head off.
In our mommy and baby class we all say that it is hard because we feel bad telling our husbands what they should do but in reality we are with them 24 hours a day and just know more. I love watching Brian parent and he is trying to get it but isn't 100% there yet. He typically is sitting down when holding Johnny and when he is crying he doesn't get up to bounce him or walk around and occasionally will lay him on the pillow to talk to him. I just stand there and hold my peace and then after a minute or so I say hey why don't you try bouncing him since that usually works. He will get up and walk around and sing to him and then I find him in the front room sitting on the couch trying to console him. It must be tiring for him to bounce or something. I chuckle a little bit and think oh he will get it some day but for now I will let him figure it out more on his own unless of course the baby is screaming his head off.
Thursday, September 2, 2010
Pregnancy/Baby Advice
Since I have had Johnny I have been talking to all my friends about how things went and how they are going with my pregnancy, delivery and parenting. One friend asked me if I could send her everything in an email and so I thought why not add it to my blog. I love sharing my experiences so here is my list of what I can offer a newly pregnant friend or blog reader to help her get through the 9 months of pregnancy and first two months after birth.
Please note this is all my personal advice and not intended to offend anyone as I know many people have different beliefs on breastfeeding and childbirth.
RESOURCES
Books I would recommend reading
· Nursing your baby by Gayle Pryor
· What to expect when your expecting
· What to expect your child first year
· Healthy Sleep Habits Happy Child by Marc Weissbluth
· Baby Laughs by Jenny McCarthy
· Girlfriend's guide to pregnancy by Vicki Lovine
Websites or other resources
· Apps for your mobile phone- search pregnancy, parenting, new mom (It really kills time in lines or waiting in doctor's office to play on your phone)
· http://www.babycenter.com/- make sure to get on the weekly email list for milestones
· http://flyingwithchildren1.blogspot.com/- good info for flying with baby
· Childbirth classes- good for husband really so that they can view birth videos and hear about childbirth
FAVORITE BABY ITEMS
· Graco Snap and Go stroller is the best and buys you time to figure out what stroller you really need when the baby is 6 months old or out of their infant car seat (It is so light and convenient for getting around)
· Swing - any kind
· Bouncy seat- this allows for you to take a shower
· Pack and Play with bassinet and changing station
· Muslin blankets-pack of 4 at Target for $29
· Play mat with the toys that dangle so the baby can be stimulated (good dog toy as well)
· Soothie pacifiers- apparently these are the best if you are breastfeeding
· Dr. Browns or Medela bottles
· Lots of burp cloths
BREASTFEEDING
· Pump as much as you can the first few weeks after birth to get your milk supply going and also to freeze some milk for future on the go use or when you are out and have a sitter
· Medela pumps and bottles are my favorite and for the first month I would recommend renting the hospital one but then also get one for yourself to keep like the Medela Pump in Style or Freestyle. I got my Freestyle off of Craigslist for $175 which is normally $380 and I just got new parts
· Pump in the morning if possible to have bottles for the day when you are out and about. Pumping in the morning is the best since that is when your milk supply is the most full.
· Breastfeeding hurts at first and is hard I am not going to lie so try to stick it out for 3 weeks before giving up. I used a nipple shield (hospital made me due to Johnny being a preemie) for the first 7 weeks and it really helped and shielded a lot of the pain. Lactation specialists will be against them however if you are in such pain and just need a little extra help I would recommend getting one. In the end if it keeps you breastfeeding in the long run than by all means I would do it.
ADVICE
· Registering - It is hard and overwhelming because you have no idea what you need or what your baby will like but definitely get some things that you think you will need for the first couple of weeks and then return what you don't need after baby comes. I promise you will be at Babies R US the first month anyways so you have plenty of time to exchange and figure out what you really need.
· Baby station for downstairs- If you have a two story house having a baby station for the downstairs away from the baby room is super helpful and convenient. The pack and play with changing station downstairs is a lifesaver and so is having a bunch of clothes for baby since running up and down the stairs is hard when you are trying to run out of the door. I also couldn't walk up the stairs due to my C-section a lot so it was super helpful for me to have two sets of everything. I still have a toothbrush downstairs.
· Read -Read some of the parenting books BEFORE baby comes. You will be too tired and would have wanted to know a lot of the stuff you are reading. I always read books in the bath or at night but now with baby here I am too tired to read and end up skimming stuff.
· C-section-Don't be afraid of a C-section even though I know it isn't the best way to deliver a baby. I say these because many people don't want one however sometimes your body will not let you deliver naturally and so my advice is for pregnant moms to understand what happens in a C-section and to be open to it. Your delivery will go much better if you are open to it. My recovery was amazing and I was actually really happy my delivery ended up in a C-section after all is said and done. The pros for me was no vaginal issues or healing needed.
· Venturing out- Try to get out of the house with baby for an outing around 3 weeks or sooner not only for your sanity but also to test run being out and about with baby. We went to a winery and it was our first experience dealing with being responsible for a baby outside of the home and it really boosted our confidence that we could do it. We had to quiet the baby when he woke up, feed him and change him in a bathroom without a changing table. That night we felt so much better that we "did it" and now go out all of the time with him.
· Help when baby comes- Let your mother or someone close to your aside from your husband help out when you come home from the hospital. I was super overwhelmed when I came home and having someone to help keep the house organized and help out with the baby saved me.
Please note this is all my personal advice and not intended to offend anyone as I know many people have different beliefs on breastfeeding and childbirth.
RESOURCES
Books I would recommend reading
· Nursing your baby by Gayle Pryor
· What to expect when your expecting
· What to expect your child first year
· Healthy Sleep Habits Happy Child by Marc Weissbluth
· Baby Laughs by Jenny McCarthy
· Girlfriend's guide to pregnancy by Vicki Lovine
Websites or other resources
· Apps for your mobile phone- search pregnancy, parenting, new mom (It really kills time in lines or waiting in doctor's office to play on your phone)
· http://www.babycenter.com/- make sure to get on the weekly email list for milestones
· http://flyingwithchildren1.blogspot.com/- good info for flying with baby
· Childbirth classes- good for husband really so that they can view birth videos and hear about childbirth
FAVORITE BABY ITEMS
· Graco Snap and Go stroller is the best and buys you time to figure out what stroller you really need when the baby is 6 months old or out of their infant car seat (It is so light and convenient for getting around)
· Swing - any kind
· Bouncy seat- this allows for you to take a shower
· Pack and Play with bassinet and changing station
· Muslin blankets-pack of 4 at Target for $29
· Play mat with the toys that dangle so the baby can be stimulated (good dog toy as well)
· Soothie pacifiers- apparently these are the best if you are breastfeeding
· Dr. Browns or Medela bottles
· Lots of burp cloths
BREASTFEEDING
· Pump as much as you can the first few weeks after birth to get your milk supply going and also to freeze some milk for future on the go use or when you are out and have a sitter
· Medela pumps and bottles are my favorite and for the first month I would recommend renting the hospital one but then also get one for yourself to keep like the Medela Pump in Style or Freestyle. I got my Freestyle off of Craigslist for $175 which is normally $380 and I just got new parts
· Pump in the morning if possible to have bottles for the day when you are out and about. Pumping in the morning is the best since that is when your milk supply is the most full.
· Breastfeeding hurts at first and is hard I am not going to lie so try to stick it out for 3 weeks before giving up. I used a nipple shield (hospital made me due to Johnny being a preemie) for the first 7 weeks and it really helped and shielded a lot of the pain. Lactation specialists will be against them however if you are in such pain and just need a little extra help I would recommend getting one. In the end if it keeps you breastfeeding in the long run than by all means I would do it.
ADVICE
· Registering - It is hard and overwhelming because you have no idea what you need or what your baby will like but definitely get some things that you think you will need for the first couple of weeks and then return what you don't need after baby comes. I promise you will be at Babies R US the first month anyways so you have plenty of time to exchange and figure out what you really need.
· Baby station for downstairs- If you have a two story house having a baby station for the downstairs away from the baby room is super helpful and convenient. The pack and play with changing station downstairs is a lifesaver and so is having a bunch of clothes for baby since running up and down the stairs is hard when you are trying to run out of the door. I also couldn't walk up the stairs due to my C-section a lot so it was super helpful for me to have two sets of everything. I still have a toothbrush downstairs.
· Read -Read some of the parenting books BEFORE baby comes. You will be too tired and would have wanted to know a lot of the stuff you are reading. I always read books in the bath or at night but now with baby here I am too tired to read and end up skimming stuff.
· C-section-Don't be afraid of a C-section even though I know it isn't the best way to deliver a baby. I say these because many people don't want one however sometimes your body will not let you deliver naturally and so my advice is for pregnant moms to understand what happens in a C-section and to be open to it. Your delivery will go much better if you are open to it. My recovery was amazing and I was actually really happy my delivery ended up in a C-section after all is said and done. The pros for me was no vaginal issues or healing needed.
· Venturing out- Try to get out of the house with baby for an outing around 3 weeks or sooner not only for your sanity but also to test run being out and about with baby. We went to a winery and it was our first experience dealing with being responsible for a baby outside of the home and it really boosted our confidence that we could do it. We had to quiet the baby when he woke up, feed him and change him in a bathroom without a changing table. That night we felt so much better that we "did it" and now go out all of the time with him.
· Help when baby comes- Let your mother or someone close to your aside from your husband help out when you come home from the hospital. I was super overwhelmed when I came home and having someone to help keep the house organized and help out with the baby saved me.
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Growing up
Johnny is 8 weeks today and I can't believe it has gone by so fast. We basically just hang out all day long and try to keep ourselves busy. JV sleeps pretty much all the time so it is pretty easy to be out and about as long as I have a bottle. Not into the public breastfeeding yet so I make sure to pump every day to have a bottle on hand. For the most part life is simple with mommy classes, shopping, working out, going to appointments and organzing the house. Lately I have been a nut and have organized the crap out of my house. Not sure why I am a freak but my house is sure in order.
Johnny is doing well however seems to have developed acid reflux which is common in premie babies. At first a doctor at his practice diagnosed him with a sinus infection and prescribed amoxicilin. Well that sucked and his changing table on his pack and play has a permanent pee smell that disgusts me every time I smell it. I have tried so hard to get it out and it is pissing me off. More so because the stupid doctor that we saw misdiagnosed him and the smell of the antibitoics reminds me that my little 6 week old had to take such a strong antibiotic for no reason. So I went back to the doctor for a 2nd opinion and unfortunately our main pediatrician has been on vacation so we had to see yet another doctor. He said Johnny has reflux which is why he is so congested. He doesn't spit up or anything so it was a shock that congestion is a sign of acid reflux. So now my little one takes zantac every day. It makes me sad that my under 2 month old baby has to take meds already but I am hoping he grows out of it and gets better.
Johnny is growing up fast and I am just happy that I have 3 more months with him at home before I got back to work. For the most part he is pretty easy and is a good eater and sleeper even though he doesn't sleep through the night. He wakes up at least every 2-3 hours which is pretty painful but he gets back to sleep fairly easy which is good. He is happy when he is awake but then gets fussy which I still don't know why. Not sure if he needs to move around, is hurting or just tired. I haven't had a real smile yet but am hoping it comes very soon. With him being 4 weeks early people keep telling me to wait as he is really 4 weeks old and not 8 but it is still a milestone I am anticipating daily.
Love the picture w/Johnny and Brody since they are trying to look at each other
Johnny is doing well however seems to have developed acid reflux which is common in premie babies. At first a doctor at his practice diagnosed him with a sinus infection and prescribed amoxicilin. Well that sucked and his changing table on his pack and play has a permanent pee smell that disgusts me every time I smell it. I have tried so hard to get it out and it is pissing me off. More so because the stupid doctor that we saw misdiagnosed him and the smell of the antibitoics reminds me that my little 6 week old had to take such a strong antibiotic for no reason. So I went back to the doctor for a 2nd opinion and unfortunately our main pediatrician has been on vacation so we had to see yet another doctor. He said Johnny has reflux which is why he is so congested. He doesn't spit up or anything so it was a shock that congestion is a sign of acid reflux. So now my little one takes zantac every day. It makes me sad that my under 2 month old baby has to take meds already but I am hoping he grows out of it and gets better.
Johnny is growing up fast and I am just happy that I have 3 more months with him at home before I got back to work. For the most part he is pretty easy and is a good eater and sleeper even though he doesn't sleep through the night. He wakes up at least every 2-3 hours which is pretty painful but he gets back to sleep fairly easy which is good. He is happy when he is awake but then gets fussy which I still don't know why. Not sure if he needs to move around, is hurting or just tired. I haven't had a real smile yet but am hoping it comes very soon. With him being 4 weeks early people keep telling me to wait as he is really 4 weeks old and not 8 but it is still a milestone I am anticipating daily.
Love the picture w/Johnny and Brody since they are trying to look at each other
This is what I look at all day...a sleeping Johnny
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Fun Game
I don't have much to blog about right now and I found this fun game on my friend Melissa's blog so I thought I would do it.
A- My AIR CONDITIONER is set on: 72
B- My BEDROOM theme is: nothing really at the moment..new colors, red and yellow but still blue bedding...so needing to be decorated
C- The CAR in the driveway is: Black BMW X5
D- My DESK looks: Organized but messy at the same time
E- The EXACT time I wake up daily is: Whenever Johnny gets up which is anywhere between 8:30-11:00
F- The FIRST thing I wash in the shower is: My face with some cheap face wash
G- My GARAGE is filled with: 2 cars, tools, shoes, and a lot of crap
H- My HOUSE is: Filled with baby stuff...I think I have two of everything one for the upstairs and one for the downstairs
I- If you peeked INSIDE my bedroom you'd see: a bed unmade and my husband's clothes everywhere which is soooo annoying
J- My favorite JUICE is: Grapefruit but I buy OJ
K- The best part of my KITCHEN is: All of my dishes...I have so many things to entertain with
L- The LAST person who visited my home was: Susy and her girls and we colored
M- The last piece of MAIL for me was: Babies R US coupon book and student loans
N- My NEIGHBORS think I'm: Lissy just gave me a ton of baby stuff and everyone else looks at me to see if I had my baby which I think they now realize
O- If you OPENED my fridge you'd see: A lot more condiments than real food, beer and wine and breast milk.
P- My last house PARTY was: Crap I have no idea. Probably a family function but we will be having UFC and poker parties much more often now that baby is here.
Q- A QUICK meal I like to fix is: Mac & Cheese or something in the microwave
R- My favorite ROOM of the house is: The kitchen since I love to keep it organized and spend most of my time there
S- The SHAMPOO brand I use is: Kerastase
T- My largest TELEVISION is: 46" but we need to upgrade in our family room since apparently Brian can't see the score in a game anymore from our kitchen
U- UNDER my bed you will find: Luggage, clothes, and dining room table
V- The last time I VACUUMED was: Months ago when the painter was here...I am not disgusting I just have a housekeeper who vaccums
W- Looking out my WINDOW I see: Too many houses by mine. I think you can see 5 from my deck. So need a bigger yard.
X- I wish I had X-TRA: Time to sleep at night
Y- My YARD is: Tiny
Z- ZZZZZZZ My bedtime is: Around 10-11ish
A- My AIR CONDITIONER is set on: 72
B- My BEDROOM theme is: nothing really at the moment..new colors, red and yellow but still blue bedding...so needing to be decorated
C- The CAR in the driveway is: Black BMW X5
D- My DESK looks: Organized but messy at the same time
E- The EXACT time I wake up daily is: Whenever Johnny gets up which is anywhere between 8:30-11:00
F- The FIRST thing I wash in the shower is: My face with some cheap face wash
G- My GARAGE is filled with: 2 cars, tools, shoes, and a lot of crap
H- My HOUSE is: Filled with baby stuff...I think I have two of everything one for the upstairs and one for the downstairs
I- If you peeked INSIDE my bedroom you'd see: a bed unmade and my husband's clothes everywhere which is soooo annoying
J- My favorite JUICE is: Grapefruit but I buy OJ
K- The best part of my KITCHEN is: All of my dishes...I have so many things to entertain with
L- The LAST person who visited my home was: Susy and her girls and we colored
M- The last piece of MAIL for me was: Babies R US coupon book and student loans
N- My NEIGHBORS think I'm: Lissy just gave me a ton of baby stuff and everyone else looks at me to see if I had my baby which I think they now realize
O- If you OPENED my fridge you'd see: A lot more condiments than real food, beer and wine and breast milk.
P- My last house PARTY was: Crap I have no idea. Probably a family function but we will be having UFC and poker parties much more often now that baby is here.
Q- A QUICK meal I like to fix is: Mac & Cheese or something in the microwave
R- My favorite ROOM of the house is: The kitchen since I love to keep it organized and spend most of my time there
S- The SHAMPOO brand I use is: Kerastase
T- My largest TELEVISION is: 46" but we need to upgrade in our family room since apparently Brian can't see the score in a game anymore from our kitchen
U- UNDER my bed you will find: Luggage, clothes, and dining room table
V- The last time I VACUUMED was: Months ago when the painter was here...I am not disgusting I just have a housekeeper who vaccums
W- Looking out my WINDOW I see: Too many houses by mine. I think you can see 5 from my deck. So need a bigger yard.
X- I wish I had X-TRA: Time to sleep at night
Y- My YARD is: Tiny
Z- ZZZZZZZ My bedtime is: Around 10-11ish
Sunday, August 8, 2010
First Family Photo
Ever since we got Sonny I wanted to capture a family photo to post on my blog header but for some reason we never really got one hence the reason for a 5 year old wedding photo. I mean we never really sat down and tried to take one and so it has been important for me to get some of our newly expanded family. One night when my mom was here we decided last minute to do a little photo shoot on our front porch even though we were not camera ready but the baby was awake and we thought why not. I would love to say that they are the first family photos but really the one at the Logsdon's is our true first but definetely not blog header worthy. Some turned out kinda cute so I thought I would post some runner ups to the one I ended up going with. I love that Sonny is the best looking in all of them. Oh and I decided to keep the name of our blog the "The Vivaldi Family" since someone once told me it sounded like we were in the mafia or something. I think that is the idea Brian is going with and don't be suprised if our second kid comes out being called Pauly, Vinny, or Guido....totally kidding. :)
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